It’s the sound of your boots on a dirt path at 8 a.m. when the mist is still hanging over the fields and you can hear your own breathing and nothing else.
It’s rounding a corner in León’s Gothic cathedral and watching 1,800 square meters of stained glass set the entire room on fire with color.
It’s sitting down at a table with people you met three days ago and sharing a three course pilgrim’s meal.
It’s walking through the Barrio Húmedo in León, one of the best tapas neighborhoods in all of Spain, tasting local Prieto Picudo wine and bites of tortilla española while the evening light turns everything golden.
It’s standing at the Cruz de Ferro (the Iron Cross) at the highest point on the entire Camino, 1,504 meters above sea level, and placing a stone you carried from home at the base of the cross.
It’s the moment you see the towers of the Cathedral of Santiago de Compostela from the top of Monte do Gozo, the Mount of Joy, named for the tears of happiness pilgrims have cried at that view for a thousand years.
It’s toasting your arrival in the city with a glass of crisp, cold Albariño wine and a plate of fresh seafood on Rúa do Franco, surrounded by your people, knowing you just did something extraordinary.
Here’s what nobody tells you. The Camino isn’t really about the walking.
It’s about who you become when you walk. When your phone isn’t buzzing and when your calendar isn’t dictating your every move. When the only question you need to answer is: can I take one more step?
Some of the most powerful moments on my previous Caminos happened between the landmarks. A conversation with a stranger from another country who somehow understood exactly what I was going through. A stretch of silence that finally let a thought I’d been avoiding catch up to me. The realization, mid step, mid breath that I am stronger than I thought, and that I have been playing smaller than necessary.
The Camino gives you back to yourself. Every woman I’ve walked with has said some version of the same thing: I didn’t know how much I needed this until I was on the path.